To be continued wtih the last post...
" The winner must not win always".. let me tell you something. Participating in a race or competition with only chance of winning is totally unfair for the winner. The real winner is the one who don't leave the field though he smells the chance of defeats. & by getting defeats per defeats.. one will be capable & strong & that will make him real winner. But for that he must have to find out his faults & mistakes of defeats. To leave the field without proving competition also is not your bravery. You must provide competition. You must be "WELL EXPERIENCED" & "DOWN TO EARTH" to get success. The totally winning process can be departed followingly.
- You must learn from your defeats.
- You have lost forever, once u leave the field.
- The captain must know how to step back.
These are the main elements of your victory. The basic aspect of these elements is.. "Experience".. yes..
the elements give above will be possible only through your experience or one can say.. once you start to go through the above given conditions. You will be experienced step by step. & that will lead you to success. It is not necessary you pass through these respectively because everything in the life is uncertain. Infact it's uncertain too, that you pass through only these elements for success. One can also experience different ways to get to success . Because it might be possible for someone who gets success in first chance . But it has more chances to get failure after getting the first success. Because getting success at 1st chance suggests that person is inexperienced. & It will be hard for that person to keep the success forever. because your nature, your ego also are the more effective to maintain your success. These feelings are more important because it comes deep from your heart. So one can say that to maintain success, you must be " DOWN TO EARTH" once you get success. As you start to get success, it makes your path towards the top position. & as you reach to the top position.. its very hard for you to remain that position. Because the journey from down to top ....is very sloppy towards downward. & it makes the figure of pyramid. so base of the pyramid is wide as commons. But as the person gets success.. he gets to be special. & as getting special . he advances towards top. . & once he gets to the top.Its hard to retain there. because the space at the top have always been nerrow. & Only one can stay out on the top. So after reaching there its up to the person how to remain there. Because as being on top .. you have to look downward because no one is there of your standard . & Every one there down figures so small (which is nothing but a meath) & once you get this meath to feel real.. Its starts your countdown towards failure.. & At that time you must remember that the steps you used to reach to top will be the steps to take u down too. The person who are downward are the base on which you have built your carrier. & You were there once where they are now. You have to reach there only when you go down. Whether you leave position of top urself or someone else pushes you down. You will have to go down once. & that is the reality of the top position.
THE LATE JYOTI BASU... A real leader...
The example of Late Jyoti Basu will be so inspiring. He occupied top position for 24 years. Actually the pyramid of the success of his party was started to figure because of him. & Mr.Basu was on the top of the whole pyramid. But he remained there as he was "DOWN TO EARTH (DTE)" .. he worked for the common man & abeyed the party rules. He didn't oppose the party decision of not joining the government of United Front. The polit bureuo decided not to be the main party of United Front to rule with the support of other parties. & He obeyed that. Otherwise he had to be the Prime Minister on that day. & the leader of his catagery who was larger than his life might had pressured the party to join the government. But he didn't. & this is the result of his attitude as a leader that he wasn't pushed down. He left his position himself. & after stepping down he joined the common man & party workers. Because he was "DOWN TO EARTH" .So if you want to keep urself remembered then you must keeping yourself in the field. & only then everyone will follow you. The time passed by you will give you experience & that will make you the natural leader..
However to be DOWN TO EARTH with the collegues is right for a leader. but he must be rud for the opposition. Yes..... you must be thinking that now i m talking totally reverse of the previous peragraph. But its true. To give the example. .. let me take u to the world of cricket.
STEVE WAUGH.. As a captain...
All of us know Steve Waugh as a successful captain. He was always there whenever the team needed him. He used to bowl to at criticle times. & there are so many examples of his battings & bowlings in which he proved himself. He himself had a competition with his brother Mark Waugh to get a position in the team. But his quality to be there in the critical conditions gave him the secure position in the team. Mark got the secure positoin later than that. But this quality helped Steve to lead the team too. & All of us know that he was the captain of the Austrialian squad. He was very friendnly with the teammates too. He was able to take calculated rick . but one more quality of Steve Waugh was making him different from other captains. He didn't used to even talk to opposition team members or the opposition captain rather. He used to behave so rud. So to be tough for opposition is not wrong. Because psychologically it changes your impression & makes you unpredictable to the opposition. & that quality lead him to obtain the best captain of Australia position. & we all know that he lead his team to win 16 consequtive test wins & 2 world cup victory.
So i would like to tell you oncemore that the leader should be DOWN TO EARTH to the team mates but not with the oppositions.because it makes you unpredictable psychologically. & so that ur opposition fails to plan strategy according to your nature.
Now in the next post we are going to discuss the the three points given above ..
Thank you.. Jai Shrikrishna..
THE LATE JYOTI BASU... A real leader...
The example of Late Jyoti Basu will be so inspiring. He occupied top position for 24 years. Actually the pyramid of the success of his party was started to figure because of him. & Mr.Basu was on the top of the whole pyramid. But he remained there as he was "DOWN TO EARTH (DTE)" .. he worked for the common man & abeyed the party rules. He didn't oppose the party decision of not joining the government of United Front. The polit bureuo decided not to be the main party of United Front to rule with the support of other parties. & He obeyed that. Otherwise he had to be the Prime Minister on that day. & the leader of his catagery who was larger than his life might had pressured the party to join the government. But he didn't. & this is the result of his attitude as a leader that he wasn't pushed down. He left his position himself. & after stepping down he joined the common man & party workers. Because he was "DOWN TO EARTH" .So if you want to keep urself remembered then you must keeping yourself in the field. & only then everyone will follow you. The time passed by you will give you experience & that will make you the natural leader..
However to be DOWN TO EARTH with the collegues is right for a leader. but he must be rud for the opposition. Yes..... you must be thinking that now i m talking totally reverse of the previous peragraph. But its true. To give the example. .. let me take u to the world of cricket.
STEVE WAUGH.. As a captain...
All of us know Steve Waugh as a successful captain. He was always there whenever the team needed him. He used to bowl to at criticle times. & there are so many examples of his battings & bowlings in which he proved himself. He himself had a competition with his brother Mark Waugh to get a position in the team. But his quality to be there in the critical conditions gave him the secure position in the team. Mark got the secure positoin later than that. But this quality helped Steve to lead the team too. & All of us know that he was the captain of the Austrialian squad. He was very friendnly with the teammates too. He was able to take calculated rick . but one more quality of Steve Waugh was making him different from other captains. He didn't used to even talk to opposition team members or the opposition captain rather. He used to behave so rud. So to be tough for opposition is not wrong. Because psychologically it changes your impression & makes you unpredictable to the opposition. & that quality lead him to obtain the best captain of Australia position. & we all know that he lead his team to win 16 consequtive test wins & 2 world cup victory.
So i would like to tell you oncemore that the leader should be DOWN TO EARTH to the team mates but not with the oppositions.because it makes you unpredictable psychologically. & so that ur opposition fails to plan strategy according to your nature.
Now in the next post we are going to discuss the the three points given above ..
Thank you.. Jai Shrikrishna..
