It has been long time to continue post under the tag "Natural Leader can be winner" or .." The winner must not win always". As I m a management student holding the degree B.B.A.. It has been by passionate work to write about management. But for that purpose , i mean for proper management one need to have a proper leader, Who holds the natural ability to lead. & in any case he leads the team in a proper direction.
So we had been discussing following points.
- You must learn from your defeats.
- You have lost forever, once u leave the field.
- The captain must know how to step back.
YOU HAVE LOST FOREVER ONCE YOU LEAVE THE FIELD:-
Preface:- ( Dedicated to the students.)As we are going to talk about the 2nd point of above given elements of leadership. It's very necessary to discuss about this point. Not according to leadership only, but because of the happenings sarroundings too. Its the problem of most resent times as the future of our nation, The students are commiting sucides. Its just because of the threat of going through the exames. & The parents, or their nearest people & even media used to blame the education system. But do you think Is it over to blam the education system? & if so, you should not try to change the education system as it is developed for thousands of students. But i must say that if the student want to pass on tough way, he must go through the exames once he feel the education system tough. Because today you know that it is the education system which is taking your exames. But in the future, you will have to pass through tougher situations. & for that no system has been located. & temme whom will you blam?
From the experience of my life , i can say that one has to passs through tough situations in life more than your educational exames. The system is located by the God (For the rationalists i.e. The power, how controls the world) himself . No optional questions are there in that situations. For all of them you must act or react. It can be for your family members too. But as they belongs to you , one must has to pass the tougher conditions in terms to provide them social security.
The things all above i want to say that , hey students please don's commit sucide or stop yourself by taking any unreallistic steps. You are precious for your parents , this society & for this nation too. Pass through the exames though which will advance your standard. & Get the degree with your excellence. I have to say this as I found this point totally relative to my post " You have lost forever, once you leave the field". Yes , once you will take any unfair step , you are leaving field in that case. You are taking drops, your commiting sucides or run away from your family anything. & once you leave the field, You wont have any chance to win forver. I want to write especially for the students who commits sucide from the threat of the situations. Dear, once you will loose your life , you have lost the battle. If you will be there , it can be chane for you to win. There are so many examples of students who commited sucide after giving one or two papers. & ofcourse they board will release the marksheet of that papers submitted for that perticular subject exames. (though it will be the marksheet of Failure as the rest of the papers have not been given) , The family found more than 65 % numbers in the subject which the sucider was threaten off. But its the matter after life has lost. No wonder if he might had got bright future in another field , if he was alive.
So please it's the matter of being there always. You can get any chance in life. You must wait for the time. There are so many examples too , who cant do anything after getting their desired degree or prefession. & There are so many examples who have done so many things, advanced to the top without degree. The God decides the way how will go thorugh. Its just the matter of time. I would like to write a sentence which i heard from my trainer during my industrial visit of NDDB at ANAND.
"Under the every ailment of the sun, There is a remedy or there is none. If there is one, try to find it. & If there is none, never mind it.."
The all the students must keep this sentence in their mind. There is no problem is there in this world, which doesn't has solution. & If you don't find any solution, just keep mum, never mind it. Because sometimes it may be possible that the God himself want you to prove yourself in another & better way. So whichever condition it is, please keep cool. & wait for the time. If you want the mango, you can't get it in winter or in rain naturally. But to take the taste of mango , one must has to wait till summer. In gujarati also it's said that "Dhiraj na fal mitha". If you will keep cool & watchful , it will be fruitful to you.
So dear youngstars..
Next time we will go for this point, how it is fruitful to the leaders..?
Till than , i would like you to mummle.. the following..isn't is true??
When you try to implement some innovative strategies. You need to face three stages..
Insult... Only fools stop here
Opposition.... Only loosers stop here
& Acceptance....Only winners cross it..
