YOU MUST LEARN FROM YOUR DEFEATS...

As said before there are few aspects which can lead you to the success. It may vary from these too.  But the aspects given below are must for anyone who want to get success. Followed by being "WELL EXPERIENCED" & "DOWN TO EARTH"... We had to discuss the following aspects..

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  You must learn from your defeats.
  
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  You have lost forever, once u leave the field.
  
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  The captain must know how to step back.

YOU MUST LEARN FROM YOUR DEFEATS:-

Learning from defeats always need the POSITIVE ATTITUDE. In all aspects you need to keep the POSITIVE ATTITUDE rather.. But perticularly when you are loosing. If you are getting defeats per defeats, you must try in right directions to win. And for that you must work with keeping POSITIVE ATTITUDE. However there are so many saying about positive attidude.

Like..

" A glass filled half of water .must be called .. half filledup. rather half empty..."

But today i need to share an example of positive attitude of a student in MBA exames ...

"It was a time when all universities running MBA programs used to take open enterence  exames  for edmissions in MBA program. & for that every students had to deal with the written, group discussion & personal interview. One student who passed the written & group discussion through, went for personal interview. The interviewer gave him two choices.A hard question  or  5 simple questions. The interviewee choose to deal with the hard question. The table between the interviewer & interviewee was round shaped.

Interviewer.." What is the length of this table?"

Interviewee:" Sir, it's 10 feet long"

Interviewer:" How can u say that.."

Interviewee:" Thats not my business now, i m bond to reply just only 1  question."

I think now i need not to inform you that the interviewee got the admission with highest marks in the personal interview.

To get such a bold Positive Attitude.. You must act like two ways. "Act as if you are the king of this world.. or Act like .. as if you dont bother whoever is the king." ..  

When you are loosing, you will get so many critics. There is an english movie named "The history of world", in which a scene is very nice. In that movie the life of before years of human beings has been consived very good way. There is a scene there.

"A man is making some scraches by a stone on a rock. The sound at that time from the back ground is.. " Here is the first artist of the world".. after few minutes, when he completes that drawing. A man comes there & make a piss over that so called painting( actually its just scraches made by stones). The sound form the back ground " Here we present you the first critics of the world".

The spirit of the theme is whatever time is there. In past years when the world wasn't grown up , or the world was growing up. or the world is well progressed now. The critics always has been there. And without critics you can't enjoy progress too. As we are from worlds biggest democracy, We always have been known about the oppositions, who plays best critics. & To make very healthy atmosphere of  competition, you must need an opposition or critics.So your positive attitude will help you to face the criticism of the world. As you will get defeats you will learn urself that the defeat you got was lack of what? & after knowing your limitations, you will accept it & in next  step you will rectify your limitations. & that will help you to advance the race of life.

So POSITIVE ATTITUDE & FACING THE CRITICISM helps you to realise the dialouge of the movie "AAINA".. 

"In which Two sisters are there. Elder is Amrita Singh who is so confident about her attitude & Juhi Chawla plays the younger sis . she is full of inferiority complex. Amrita Singh always used to win against Juhi. But in the climex of the movie, in one game Juhi used to win. The dialouge between them at that time ..

Amrita singh:" Tu aaj pahli baar mujse jiti hai"

Juhi chawla:" Haarte haarte sikh gayee hu didi"

So all i have to say, if you want to creat self confidence to face your critics & win the game , you must have POSITIVE ATTITUDE.  In any case & stage of life , you must maintain it. If you don't have it then you must change your attitude & switch it to Positive. Because

"If you give numeric value to the alphabets .. 1 to A, 2.. to B...... 26 to Z.. & if you spell Money, Power or anything . & will get the total of that numeric values. you will get different values. But you make the addition of the numeric values of the spelling of ATTITUDE.. will get the sum of 100."

Above all , i would like to say that  change your  ATTITUDE if you want to get 100% success , LEARN FROM YOUR DEFEATS & WIN THE GAME.....

(In the next post we will discuss about one more element concerned with this . i.e. Once you leave the field, you have lost forever..)